Cee returned from her break and has restarted her Fun Foto Challenge. This first week, she has asked us to focus on the color green. In addition to Cee’s challenge, Teagan R. Geneviene gave us an interesting Photo Exercise.

Look at a favorite photo, painting, mural, or other image. Drink in the feelings that it brings to mind. Then write something related to the image.

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I decided to combine these two challenges, and the green photo I selected as inspiration is today’s feature photo. As I look at that photo, it strikes me that the bunny might be thinking about the yard in which he/she lives.

As Gardens Grow

Up until I was nine and a half—I think until we became teenagers, we took pride in those halves—we lived in an apartment in a building my paternal grandmother owned. My grandmother, who we called Sita, owned a building with four apartments and a freestanding house on the same plot of land. Behind the separate house, Sita always had a garden. Each spring, she called upon her three nearby grandsons, my brother and me and our older cousin Melvin, to help her create that garden. We turned over the soil, raked out the various beds and helped her plant tomatoes, peppers, carrots, peas, beans, cucumbers eggplant, squash and various spices.

My job was to break up the large lumps—the stage between the pitchfork and the rake. It was easier than working the pitchfork, and less demanding than the rather meticulous requirements my grandmother had for the rake work.

One year, Sita asked our neighbor for permission to plant a small field of corn on his property. He didn’t mind. The space she wanted to use was at the end of his yard, near the creek that ran behind our houses. Turning that plot of land into a functional garden plot was way more work than any of us grandchildren had bargained for. Bargain isn’t the right word—it’s not like we had an option.

I remember trying to use the pitchfork. To get it in the ground, I had to jump on it with both feet, at which point turning it over was impossible. The first row was the worst, and eventually my father did that. From that point, we—we being my older brother and Melvin—could turnover the row beyond the freshly broken ground. My job, breaking those lumps, became much more difficult. Not only were the lumps bigger, the grass had to be cut off and buried below the surface. As I recall, the corn crop was not considered a success and corn was never planted again.

Back to me and my nine and one-half year-old self: that June, my parents bought their first house. Much work was done to get that house in order. The following spring, my father decided to start his own garden. We broke ground for three equal size garden beds. My slightly larger stature allowed me to handle more of the tasks. This allowed me to realize that Sita’s meticulous nature was a genetic gift bestowed upon my father. Bestowed upon and amplified would be a better description.

Around the edge of each plot, he formed a small V-shaped trench. Each side was compacted with the back of a rake. Then, in a process I didn’t understand, my father planted a row of lettuce in that trench. He said it would keep the bunnies out of the garden—they’d eat the lettuce and leave everything else alone. He planted lettuce every couple of weeks, so that there was always something for the bunnies to eat.

The bunnies had lived in the woods behind our house for years before our arrival. There was also a flock of pheasants living in those woods. My father maintained a lawn in front and on the side of our house that could pass for a golf course fairway. But farther off to the side and in the back, weeds of all sorts were allowed to flourish. In addition to the lettuce, the bunnies ate those weeds. He would often sit on our patio as the mother pheasant and her chicks walked through and the bunnies happily munched. I don’t think he was protecting his garden.

We don’t plant lettuce for the bunnies that live in and around our yard, but we don’t do anything to prevent the dandelions and broadleaf weeds from flourishing. Weeds of all sorts grow here. They’re green enough to pass for a lawn, and we keep them and the grass around them at an acceptable height. We don’t cut weeds until they stop flowering. During that time, the bees feed on the blossoms. My father knew that we could coexist with those animals. Some of his neighbors cleared the woods behind their houses just as some of our neighbors have removed mature trees and other habitats.

Watching the bunnies hop around our yard reminds me of my childhood home. It reminds me of the lessons I learned from my father and grandmother. It reminds me that we (humans) aren’t the only inhabitants on the planet.

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90 responses to “As Gardens Grow—CFFC”

  1. A great story showing where your love of nature originated. I love that your father planted lettuce for the bunnies. Says a lot about him. Thanks for sharing, Dan.

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    1. Thanks Darlene. My dad was a tough guy, but he had a strong appreciation of nature and people. I think of him often.

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  2. Natural green space is important and you seem to have your share, Dan. Love that heron shot.

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    1. We have very little space under our direct control, Jo, but we do what we can with it.

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  3. Green – one of my favorite colors. Here’s hoping it arrives early this year. Great memories and really nice shots especially that heron. Happy Monday, Dan. I think we’re both going to need our snow blowers. :-)

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    1. Thanks Judy. I think you’re right, the green/brown is going to be covered in white for a while.

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  4. Awww… so bunny loving is an inherited trait.
    💕

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  5. Great photos, Dan — including the contemplative bunny. And very interesting, nostalgic family memories of the challenges and rewards of gardening.

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    1. Thanks Dave. When I searched my photos for “green,” that bunny was the first one that came up. He looked like he was wondering why this yard is different than the others around us. That started me down the same road.

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  6. Beautiful share and great photos, Dan. Green (and teal) is my favorite color, so I have a special love for nature. 😊

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    1. Thanks Gwen. I appreciate the small amount of nature we’re able to invite into our yard. I also like going to places (like that park) where I can find other examples.

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  7. Ginger Salvatore Avatar
    Ginger Salvatore

    Dan, I love the lifelong lessons you learned from Sita and your dad. They must be filled with pride looking down at you now, watching you respect nature and it’s inhabitants. It would be easier to just mow everything down, but so much more rewarding that you don’t. And look at all the adorable friends you’ve made!

    It’s nice to see so much green in your photos, a color that should soon be showing itself before too long. Just love that heron!

    Old Glory on the Lexington Battle Green is a beauty.

    No green here now! Our forecast is for 8”-12” of the white stuff. I understand it’s still winter, but geeezzz! Keep your snowblower mighty handy.

    Have a good week. Keep safe and warm. The beggars and assorted critters are depending on you. You and the Editor are their safe haven.

    Ginger💞

    Sent from my iPad

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    1. Thanks Ginger. I do tend to think about Sita and my dad often. Sometimes, it’s when I’m wondering why I feel the need to do something and I realize – oh yeah, that’s genetic. They taught lessons by explanation and by example.

      I knew I’d find a flag in with the green somewhere. The Battle Green felt like a great choice.

      It will be white here before it turns green. Hopefully I can take care of it when it arrives – and again when the town flies by and pushes it up unto the sidewalk and driveway.

      Stay safe!

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  8. Your father was a very smart man!
    You made Teagan proud with both your pictures and story, Dan. Congrats on this bright and warm Monday!

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    1. Thanks GP. I was planning a different story, with a different green photo, but I realized yesterday that I’d already written that. When I searched for “green” that bunny was the first photo that popped up. He looked to be contemplating the yard around him. Maybe he was wondering why it was there for him to enjoy.

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      1. Or thinking ‘somebody up there likes me’!

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  9. Lots of lovely green here, Dan. That’s usually my favorite color (although now and then turquoise or dark teal nudges it slightly aside).
    You wrote a charming memoir-story, beautifully complete as a story. Many thanks for linking back to me. Big hugs.

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    1. Thanks for the challenge, Teagan. It was interesting, especially when it took me down a different road than I had planned.

      I hope you have a great week.

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      1. Haha, so the bunny picture took you down a rabbit hole!

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        1. Ha ha! That’s a great way of putting it, Teagan.

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  10. I love your story, Dan. Sita gave you a great gift – to til the soil and make things grow – even allowing the weedy things in your yard to flower for the bees. I like the idea of offering up lettuce around the garden for the bunnies, but I think the eighbor and I will be planting marigolds and other bunny-resistent flowers around our butterfly garden to keep our flowers healthy. I am already getting anxious for spring, but you and I know that it’s going to be awhile. ;-)

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    1. Thanks Mary. It’s funny how the simple lessons are the ones that matter. We have some snow coming overnight and tomorrow – nothing growing here for a while. So far this winter, our plants have done well, although someone ate most of a peony we planted in October. There might be enough left to sprout in the spring, but it’s going to need a fence.

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  11. Great story, Dan and your pics rock too!

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  12. Like the apology to the heron😀

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    1. I do feel bad when I disturb them. They are so patient and quiet.

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  13. This is such a great read, Dan. We didn’t plant vegetables, but I think I inherited my mother’s love for gardening. That said, while my neighbor’s yards are dormant for the winter, mine is green–from the newly sprouted weeds. Like you, we keep the yard neat and trimmed but I will be darned if I am going to have a lawn service kill everything to give me a perfect yard of grass. It was such a thrill for me yesterday to have my cats chittering on the windowsill as they watched the birds and squirrels running all over the yard for food. As nature intended it…

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    1. “As nature intended it…” That’s exactly what I wanted to say, Lois. I think too many people have lost sight of that.

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  14. A super story of coexistence, Dan. I enjoyed the photos, too.

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    1. Thanks John. The critters around here seem to appreciate the effort.

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  15. So THAT’s how to deal with the rabbits who eat the plants we don’t want them to eat!

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    1. Yes, let them eat the plants we don’t want to see and feed them first ;-)

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      1. Hmm, I wonder if bunnies in the Southern states could help with their kudzu invasion.

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        1. I think that might require goats.

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  16. Those are great memories, Dan! I like that you let the weeds grow so the bunnies can eat them. It’s a win-win for you and them.

    The collection of images is nice. I really like the train, and the big green egg. I bet yummy stuff comes off it!

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    1. The train is my favorite, Deborah. It was going to be the subject of this post, but then I remembered posting about that experience before. The Big Green Egg has cooked up some good stuff over the years.

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  17. Sweet memories

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  18. Love the thought of our wildlife here surveying their green fields each day, wondering where to journey to…planning the day ahead. It was nice to read this “origin story” for how you grew up with – and developed – the appreciation for coexisting with nature🙂.

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    1. Thanks Bruce. Live and let live. That bunny does look like he’s planning the day.

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  19. What a marvelous response to my green challenge for last week. Excellent Dan :D

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    1. Thanks Cee, and welcome back! I love it when I can combine a writing prompt with your Fun Foto prompt. Both are fun.

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      1. It does always seem special to combine a couple of challenges :D

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  20. The bunny is surveying his kingdom. It’s delightful to read about your life growing. It brings memories of my childhood summers spent on my grandparents farm. They too had a garden, at least an acre. Beside the usual vegetables they grew citron melon to feed the livestock. I can’t remember seeing a bunny but many deer. I loved reading this Dan.

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    1. Thanks. I never heard about growing melon for livestock. That’s interesting. We used to visit relatives who had a large farm in Virginia. Lots of deer there, too. Thanks for this comment.

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  21. I loved your reminiscing, Dan. Your “story” brought back some gardening memories of my own. And I remember having pheasants in my back yard when we first moved into our house and farmland alay behind us.

    Great use of green in the photos, too. The first is my favorite. It makes me think of spring!

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    1. I miss seeing the pheasants, Mae. They were such a cute family each year. The chicks stay with mom for about 3 months. I’m glad this post brought back some nice memories

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  22. Your father and grandmother imparted a wealth of knowledge upon you which reminds us all of the importance of living in harmony with nature, cherishing its beauty and respecting its delicate balance. A wonderful post. Bunnies always add to the excitement.

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    1. Thanks Rebecca. Some of the simplest lessons end up being the most important.

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  23. I love your story and especially the lesson you learned from it and have now shared with us!! Thanks you!! The pics are awesome also!!

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    1. I’m glad, Kirt. Parents make choices regarding what they pass along.

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  24. What a wonderful gardening story! I believe that green egg thingie is called a hibachi!

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    1. Thanks Jan. The Big Green Egg is a grill and a smoker. Ours is 18″ but they go up to 24″

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  25. Thanks Dan you saw so images on your garden..Anita

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  26. That’s a wonderful story. Wise ancestors!
    I’m quite sure I rode in a train like that from Baltimore to Cincinnati the one year I attended UC. My father worked for the B&O/C&O and I got to ride free–all night stopping at every little town in West Virginia. I haven’t thought about that in a long time, thanks! (K)

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    1. I’d love to take that ride today. I love trains.

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  27. What lovely memories! It goes a long way to explaining your menagerie. Those of us who follow you get a wonderful taste of how it should be.

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    1. Thanks Pam. We’re getting snow today, and we looked out to see bunny prints coming up the ramp, across the porch and down the step. It always makes me smile when I see them using the ramp.

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  28. This was just wonderful, Dan. Thank you for sharing the story of Sita and her garden, and how your dad kept the weeds. He was a wise man. Now I know why you have a fondness for bunnies. The green photos are terrific, especially the locomotive and the ball park. I think you are getting the big snow today!

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    1. We are getting snow today, Jennie. I’m not sure how big. The storm was been downgraded from “Watch” to “Advisory” – I’m just happy I no longer have to worry about it. When it’s done snowing, I’ll go clear the steps, bushes, driveway and sidewalk. Are you guys getting snow?

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      1. It was predicted to be 9-12 but fizzled to an inch.

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        1. We had 8″ – wet and heavy, but It’ clear now.

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  29. That was a lovely share, Dan. Your grandmother and father taught you much about hard work and caring for each other and the critters around. Lovely photos, too.

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    1. They both worked hard all their lives, Dale. Neither of them thought it was a bad thing and raised us not to think it was, either. The critters around us work pretty hard to survive. Helping them feels like the right thing to do.

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      1. I don’t doubt that for a second, Dan. And I don’t think it’s a bad thing to teach kids about hard work! It is a lovely consideration.

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  30. It was nice to read about your childhood and your love for nature. As far as I’m concerned, I am a pure Mumbai boy. This means my grandparents and parents both are from Mumbai. So, I do not come from a family who migrated to the city. Maybe my great grandparents did so who knows? However, it was only after my sister got married I got to visit her place in Lonavala which is a hill station 2 hours from Mumbai. These days I often write about it. There I had my first interaction with nature. I was probably 11 then. I got to see touch-me-nots and fireflies and whatnot. Later, I went to a village of my college friend who still happens to be my best buddy and probably my oldest friend. We were walking through meadows of tiny wildflowers and he drew my attention to those flowers and the fact of how often we miss these minute details around us. I was instantly sucked in. Nature was talking to me in those moments. Just a year before the pandemic I took up gardening, and it only grew during the lockdown and I continue to enjoy nature. Sarah is an ornithophile and she introduced me to the world of birds.

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    1. It’s good to appreciate and understand the world of nature around us. I think the world would be a better place if more people understood nature.

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      1. True. In Zoroastrianism, we respect all elements of the world like air, water, fire, earth because we take it as a gift from God. Sadly all around me I only see people disrespect it and that is so agonizing. Even if you politely tell them not to litter they’ll say – What’s your problem? Is it your father’s property? And now India is the world’s most populated country so multiply this attitude into millions of people.

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  31. Thank you for all the green! It is a wonderful color to see right now. I was all about the green grass and leaves and all, and then — wow — a green locomotive! There’s a show-stopper! Great photos! I loved picturing your Sita and her grandchildren, and then your dad. The lessons we learn as children are often life-long, aren’t they? And, yes, they often had to do with work.

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    1. When I think about all the challenges Sita survived, it’s hard to argue with her work ethic or her faith. Other “skills” have passed from being useful to being memories, but basic “get out there and do what needs to be done” work ethic continues to serve me well.

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      1. That work ethic serves everyone well, in my not-so-humble opinion. I can’t say I always live up to it, but at least it pokes my conscience. Work and faith: that sums up what they gave us.

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  32. A lesson worth remembering. Thanks, Dan!

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    1. My pleasure to share this one, Olga. These people taught by example.

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  33. Such a rich and valuable history of appreciation from your loved ones, Dan. Coexistence with the natural world is imperative for everyone’s survival. Wish I knew what to plant as a sacrifice for the leaf utter ants and bighead grasshoppers who make short work of my tender leafed plants. 🙂

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    1. We didn’t have those pests when I was growing up. Sorry, I don’t have any ideas. I wish coexistence was easier for everyone to understand.

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      1. It requires stepping away from the ‘me first’ position. 😞

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  34. I do like this last line of this post Dan where you refer to the bunnies bopping around the yard with high grass, dandelions and weeds (same here BTW): “It reminds me that we (humans) aren’t the only inhabitants on the planet.”

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  35. HI DAn, thank you for this great post. I’m always delighted to read about people living in harmony with nature. We are not the only species on this planet.

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    1. I know you’re a huge supported of that notion, Robbie. I always appreciate reading the material you share.

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  36. I love letting the critters have their own gardens! You and your family are good neighbors. :)

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    1. We try. They give us a lot of entertainment.

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