Not a day goes by that I don’t run into someone on the highway or the roads around town that makes me shake my head and wonder. Last week, it was here in our little town, at one of the worst intersections we have.

Main Street runs through our downtown area parallel to the Windsor Locks Canal and the railroad tracks. About midway through town, there’s an intersection with Route-140 which crosses the canal, a small industrial island and then the Connecticut River. The southbound lane (at the top) gets a left-arrow when the lights favor Main Street. Most cars abuse that arrow until some bold northbound traveler sticks his bumper into the flow. Honking, yelling and various gestures are a commonplace occurrence.

Map Rt-140 and Main St
Funeral procession (black)

I was that first yellow car in the left lane, planning to continue north on Main street (the right lane must turn right over the bridge). The southbound traffic was turning onto the bridge as I got to the light. They continued turning as the light turned green. I quickly realized it was a funeral procession — a lengthy funeral procession. The cars all had their headlights on and they had those little flags. I waited. The light completed its cycle and the procession continued. In fact, it continued through the complete next cycle. The entire time, the man behind me was honking.

Show some respect buddy, we’re all going to end up in one of those processions at some point.

Idiot drivers for One-Liner Wednesday by Linda G. Hill

In addition to Linda’s regular challenge, I am participating in Cee’s Which Way Challenge, host by Deb Waters. This is the second week she’s asking for autumn colors, and I just happen to have a few that I collected while walking.

I know you’re probably hoping for expecting a promotional video for one or more of my books. Not to worr, I’ll feature one of those soon, but for today, how about another look at one of our bunnies.

91 responses to “This Too Shall Pass — 1LinerWeds”

  1. I’m the same way about drivers here. Every day I see something that just makes me shake my head in disbelief.

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    1. I’m used to it on the highway, Janet, but it’s getting much worse on local roads, too.

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  2. Having someone right behind me incessantly honking might have driven me over the edge. Kudos on staying composed, Dan. I loved the autumn photos. Hugs.

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    1. Thanks Teagan. It’s a good think my car isn’t equipped with phasers.

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      1. Haha! “Phasers on stun, Mr. Spock!”

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  3. A quick tap on the horn is one thing, but a horn is not meant to be a tool to express one’s anger.

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    1. Exactly. This was endless.

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  4. I really hate drivers in a rush or showing road rage, it’s very intimidating and dangerous. Great photos of Autumn though Dan and glad you’re ok!

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    1. Thanks Wayne. This guy was obnoxious. I always laugh a little and think, “I have to put up with him at a red light. Some poor person probably lives with this guy.”

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      1. That’s exactly right!

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  5. I love that post title -THIS TOO WILL PASS

    truly one of my fav lines because during hard times, you know it will end and better times will come. But also, that line, or quote, can help during good times because we can savor the moment and enjoy the day for what it has – while knowing it will pass too.

    oh and the idiot drivers are truly annoying and this was so true:
    Show some respect buddy, we’re all going to end up in one of those processions at some point.

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    1. Thanks Yvette. I do like that saying.

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  6. Looking very autumnal.

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  7. “Show some respect!” — how very old-fashioned. Some day AI will figure out a way to make a neon sign out of our thoughts and flash it on the rear window for the drivers behind us. The frost on the leaf is beautiful even if I’m not quite ready for it. Those gorgeous golds and reds also will pass. Darn.

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    1. Oh my, the thought of that sign on my car is truly frightening. I might get arrested. It’s unfortunate that respect seems to be old fashioned. Not showing respect goes against everything my parents taught me. Frost and freezing are in our forecast. I guess it’s time.

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      1. I fear it’s true we could get arrested for our thoughts! That time may be coming, but for now we will just get indigestion.

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  8. Hi Dan – absolutely think about why they’re going … think of others … life is life isn’t it – thank goodness I too live in a relatively quiet town. Frost already! Great reds – cheers Hilary

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    1. Thanks Hilary. I also know from experience that some cars that get separated are likely to get lost. Autumn is here in full force.

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  9. It use to be when you headed out on a road trip you expected a little drama along the way, but driving around locally doing errands was pretty stress free. Today, however, is a whole other experience. Yes, show a little respect and in the end how much time elapsed – 5, 10, 15 minutes. Get real, buddy. I was driving between two small towns on a two lane road yesterday and was going 3 miles less than the speed limit. A truck behind me passed at a high rate of speed and just about hit my front end as he had to pull over because of oncoming traffic. Why, so he could be in front of me but behind the car in front. It is so ridiculous and dangerous.

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    1. That’s really scary. You can look ahead and see that traffic isn’t letting me go any faster. I don’t know what these people are thinking (or why they’re not thinking). I hope you have a good rest of the week.

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  10. The autumn colours are so lovely Dan.

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  11. The car behind you being impatient waiting for a funeral procession to pass — ugh, Dan.

    Reminds me a bit of a time when I entered a procession on a highway for a funeral I was attending (there was a gap between cars) and the driver behind me honked quite a few times, thinking I did not belong in the procession. She was a bit embarrassed when she saw me at the gravesite a little while later. :-)

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    1. “Oops, that was you I was honking at…sorry.”

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  12. Good grief, what is wrong with that guy! Common courtesy and common sense dictates you respectfully stay where you are until the procession passes.

    Mrs. Cardinal is a beauty, as are all the trees and that vivid red leaf. Dinner at the Antion’s is always a feast!

    I love the bright path the sun made shining through the leaves.

    Bunny munching on baby carrots is always a treat to see!

    I can’t believe October is almost over. Happy Hump Day.

    ginger🦋

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    1. Wrapping up the first month of autumn, Ginger. 10 months of the year have passed and we still have idiots on the road. I guess there’s now cure for that.

      The colors are staying bright, and the sun is doing a great job of adding highlights. Everybody is hungry, but we’re trying to keep up.

      The bunnies have been assured of a steady supply of carrots.

      Have a great rest of this week.

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  13. So sweet! No offense to your promotional videos, but bunny beats book hands down.
    😉

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    1. I know. I was about to load up my standard bit of advertising when I realized I didn’t have a bunny photo, so…

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  14. I’m with you about crazy drivers. Every day I find myself saying, “I just don’t understand people.” And, BTW, I’m a trained counselor. Like others, I just shake my head and wonder… Beautiful autumn photos, Dan. It’s such a gorgeous time of the year. 🍂🍂

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    1. What would you tell these people, Gwen? I don’t think they respond to reason. They certainly don’t respond to obvious hints.

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      1. So, so true, Dan. Sadly, they don’t respond to reason.

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  15. I love that bunny video! His or her movements are so dainty while dining! Adorable!!

    Great photos, Dan. I love them all! The autumn colors in your area are full of variety: reds, browns, and gold all vying for the spotlight. The mini maple tree and the dogwood tree photo, beautiful contrasts in scale.

    Love the leaf you captured and the sunlight’s rays…superb photo.

    That huge tree leaning near that house is amazing and beautiful. That house must receive a lot of shade.
    Mrs. Cardinal is so cute on your porch and the fabulous buffet for the visiting flock of cowbirds, amazing…Do they come around this time each year or is this a new phenomenon?

    I was spoiled for choice with your autumn theme, so I could not choose a favorite, Dan. But I enjoyed seeing flowering plants still doing well in the last week of October with your beautiful Marigolds in bloom.

    Thank you for a wonderful look at fall colors.

    I hope you have a wonderful day.

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    1. Thanks so much Suzette.

      The cowbirds show up this time of year and eat us out of lawn and sidewalk. They eat everything. Normally, I have to clean up the old stuff at least once a week. When these guys show up, the ground is bare.

      Seeing the colors and the critters makes us feel good. We know winter is coming, but this is a beautiful introduction.

      I hope you have a great week ahead.

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      1. I am glad you have your feathered gardening helpers to rake the yard (aka cowbirds) at this time of year. They are probably great assistants…not a morsel left behind!

        I never tire of seeing fall colors.

        Thanks so much, Dan.

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  16. I don’t think I have ever seen a dogwood that big. All the tree photos were a treat since we don’t get much color here.

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    1. Even the oat trees are adding some color this year, John. It’s fun walking around near sunrise. That dogwood is hanging on. It’s beautiful in the spring and fall.

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  17. You have to wonder what goes on in some driver’s heads; then again, I don’t think I want to know.

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    1. You’re right, Nancy. I don’t think we want to know.

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  18. Regarding that guy who was honking during the funeral procession, some people need to learn patience.

    I especially liked the photo of those black birds against the white ground as they were eating the grains you left for them.

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    1. Patience would solve so many problems, Frank. It’s only a matter of minutes.

      Seeing the swarm of black birds always amazes me.

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  19. When it comes to drivers, nothing surprises me anymore. Everyone is in such a huge hurry to get someplace and that fact alone seems to have replaced all manner of civility and decency. If people weren’t so aggressive and hostile, I might be tempted to calmly get out of the car and walk up to that person honking and point out it was a funeral. “Might” being in my dreams. People are way to crazy anymore for someone to do that these days.

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    1. I had that thought. I could see how many cars were still coming, but you’re right, I’m not taking that chance. My guess is it wouldn’t matter. How dare someone interfere with his schedule.

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  20. There are bad drivers all over the world it seems. Hubby complains about them here daily. But this guy was extremely disrespectful. What was he going to do, join the procession?

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    1. Really! It was a long procession, but it was still only a matter of minutes.

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  21. There is a certain irony in the guy behind you leaning on the horn, trying to get somewhere in a hurry. One of the nicest things I ever saw was when a funeral procession was coming down the street and passed a little baseball field along the way. The coach stopped practice and he and all the little ball players stood perfectly still, with their hats over their hearts. You hope those kids remember that as they grow up.

    I think there is nothing cuter than watching a bunny eat. The mouth, the nose, even the ears….adorable.

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    1. What a wonderful gesture and a valuable lesson. I think most of those kids will remember that, Lois.

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  22. You honestly have to wonder where some people’s heads are. Had that guy never seen a funeral before?

    I have to wonder: is a group of cowbirds a herd?

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    1. In fact, a group of cowbirds is a herd – how about that, John, something that makes sense.

      My good manners prevent me from saying where that guy’s head was.

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  23. We have the same rule about funeral processions where I live and it’s pretty much universally followed. There are always the ones who zoom off when the last car is barely past but I guess that’s not too bad…especially compared to honking. That’s pretty disrespectful.

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    1. I couldn’t believe how rude he was being. It’s one thing to be a disrespectful jerk, but he was asking me to be a disrespectful jerk.

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      1. Unacceptable. Also wild that he thought he could convince you to blow through the light during the procession by HONKING at you. Honestly I’m just stubborn enough that I’d turn my car off and make him go around once everyone started moving again. 😂

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        1. Haha! That would have been funny.

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  24. Ooooh, I hate idiot drivers like that!
    I’m sure the brilliance of your trees are better seen in person.

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    1. I guess these drivers are everywhere.

      The leaves are beautiful, Kim. Thanks.

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  25. I swear people have absolutely no patience these days! I love all the autumn colors you found. Thank you for sharing!

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    1. Thanks Jan. This is our best time of the year up here, so I’m milking it for all it’s worth.

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  26. I’m a little surprised that the honker didn’t drive around you, then find himself stuck trying to get through the precession. That would have been amusing. Of course, jerks like that rarely let themselves become self-aware enough to realize that they are a jerk.

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    1. I was expecting him to try that, Janis. Fortunately, he didn’t make the attempt.

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  27. The Bunny video – A+

    Drivers who have no respect for a funeral procession – F- (lower than a Fail)

    Beautiful fall shots, thank you, Dan!

    I shared on Bsky!

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    1. Thanks Resa, and thanks for sharing. I agree with the grades you handed out.

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      1. Be well, and give ’em hell!
        The Jays are still in!

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        1. Coming home on top – I hope they can pull it off for the hometown crowd.

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  28. They talk with their ears.
    People honk at the slightest provocation. My street is narrow and there is always someone double parked either picking up or discharging someone or something. It usually only takes a few minutes. But they have to honk the whole time, as if it would make things go quicker. (K)

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    1. One of my daughter’s best photos from the city is a shot looking up at a “Don’t Honk” sign.

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      1. No one reads those signs…

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  29. Love the frozen leaf and all the trees🍂🍁🪾

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  30. Motorists are rude and inconsiderate. The driving in SA is abominable since Covid. Great autum trees photographs.

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    1. Things got much worse here during Covid, and never returned to what we knew as normal.

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  31. Dan, you are not alone with the impatient (that’s the nice word for it) drivers. It’s been especially bad around here as traffic was highly congested and backed up while an interstate overpass (a main east/west road) was closed from @March to mid September. It’s the impatient drivers who block the intersection because they can’t wait their turn or for the next light that drive me crazy. I keep telling God I’m sorry for yelling at them (they can’t hear me, of course), but I wish they would help me out with MY patience once in awhile. ;-)

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    1. I get honked at for not being one of those drivers, Mary. I generally refuse to “block the box” as they call it, especially if I’m at a light where I will get a green arrow.I refuse to let the “impatient” drivers bully me into doing something I don’t feel right doing, but it drives me crazy.

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  32. I just read that a lot of New Yorkers are moving up to your state increasing home prices as often happens and the traffic could get worse.
    Your fall oranges and reds are wonderful!

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    1. During the pandemic, a lot of New Yorkers bought houses in what had been rural areas of CT. The prices are awful now. Three of our poorest cities are in the Top-10 cities in the US for housing price increases. It will make the poverty problem even worse, as a lot of rental property was bought up as investments and rents climbed dramatically overnight. Our traffic will get nothing but worse. Around here, you have to know the back way to everywhere.

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  33. You are not alone Dan, we have noticed the deterioration of driving skills and respect of late.

    I am appalled but not surprised by the lack of respect from the driver behind you whilst you waited for the funeral courtage to pass…? No respect!

    We were talking the grandchildren home the other day when a man in a van …. Totally oblivious of us driving up a clear road on a clear afternoon…. He pulled out of a right handed side road . Hubby having good reactions and having been trained for evasive driving ( though years ago) managed to avoid the guy. The Van was driving so fast it was a miracle he didn’t hit us.

    The photos are glorious too as is the bunny video 💜✨✨

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    1. Those near misses (my wife calls them ‘near hits’) are becoming more and more frequent. I’m so glad you guys avoided a collision.

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      1. It was very scary because he was going so fast he’d of had a real mess of the car and us!! Stay safe 💜💜💜

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  34. Honestly, some people… Love the photos, Dan, especially that frosty leaf.

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    1. We’re going to be seeing more of those frosty leaves soon, Jennie.

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      1. I know… mixed emotions.

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  35. People are so unaware. Probably didn’t know what was going on right in front of them.

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    1. You’d think he’d get the message, as neither me or the car next to me was moving, but you’re probably right.

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